While he might blame an outburst on the frustration of the moment, Cutler acted according to a script written long ago, when his father stubbornly refused to show pride in his achievements. “What Dave missed as a young man was a dad who could tell him: Dave, you’ve done well. Relax,” said Cutler’s high school football coach, Larry Churches. Neil Cutler endowed his son with a desire to win the respect and admiration of others through competition. “Whatever Dave was doing, he had to prove he did it better than anyone,” Churches said. Even idle pleasures fell prey to Cutler’s need to outdo others. “If you have a father who says you’ve done well, you don’t have to keep proving it, but Dave was always proving it to his dad.”
Father Wound
Absent fathers forged titan ambition through unmet longing.
Unreliable Parts
Mega-projects orchestrate unreliable elements into coherent wholes.