The chief burden of the frustrated is the consciousness of a blemished, ineffectual self, and their chief desire is to slough off the unwanted self and begin a new life. They try to realize this desire either by finding a new identity or by blurring and camouflaging their individual distinctness; and both these ends are reached by imitation. ... As to the blurring and camouflaging of the self, it is achieved solely by imitation—by becoming as like others as possible. The desire to belong is partly a desire to lose oneself.
Copy Machine
Imitation powers both learning and conformity.
Useful Lies
Self-deception as strategy: the best liars believe themselves.
Costly Signals
Actions must be expensive to be believed.
Self-Surrender
Ego-dissolution enables both transcendence and manipulation.
Invisible Crack
Microscopic defects propagate silently until catastrophic failure.